"What Got You Here, Won't Get You There" was written by Marshall Goldsmith. In this book he uncovers the ideology behind why successful people get stuck getting to the next level. What may be holding you back is what you got to this point.
In this episode, we will apply his book to our small businesses as t-shirt makers and how we can get unstuck.
The Success Delusion
The "success delusion" is a psychological phenomenon where individuals or businesses mistakenly believe that the strategies or behaviors that led to their past success will guarantee continued success in the future. In other words, it's the tendency to assume that what worked before will always work, even when circumstances change.
For instance, assuming that the social media platform you use for business will never change or not changing out your products to match with current trends because they sold before... falls into the Success Delusion.
It is crucial to self-reflect on what is working and what isn't, identify the core functions when adapting with the market.
Identifying the 20 Habits
Here are the 20 habits Goldsmith attributes to being held back from the top:
- Winning too much
- Adding too much value
- Passing judgement
- Making destructive comments
- Starting with "no, but, however"
- Telling the world how smart we are
- Speaking when angry
- Negativity - let me tell you why that won't work
- Withholding information
- Failing to give proper recognition
- Claiming undeserved credit
- Making excuses
- Clinging to the past
- Playing favorites
- Refusing to express regret
- Not listening
- Failing to express gratitude
- Punishing the messenger
- Passing the buck
- Excessive need to be "me"
"Feed-forward" is all about getting helpful suggestions and feedback on how to improve the future versus dwelling on the past.
To work through the "Feed-Forward Method":
- Select a behavior to work on
- Describe it to someone
- Receive improvement suggestions
- Show gratitude without judgment
When trying to change, you will be met with resistance. Focus on getting to the next level and your why to keep it in perspective.
Navigating the Process of Change
- Accepting that you have a problem
- Choose the right thing to work on
- Don't delude: the quick fix doesn't provide the lasting solution
- Don't hide from the truth that we need to hear
- There is no ideal behavior because we aren't perfect
- If you can't measure it, you can't achieve it
- Incentivize the behavior
- The best time to change is now
What got you here, won't get you there!
I'd love to hear which habit you struggle with the most. Submit a post to our Community Facebook group and share with us what you are working through.
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